don't ask, don't look at my bum

Let's see if I have this right:

Our military is the strongest, bravest, toughest force the world has ever seen.  We can fight crazed terrorists and stare down nuclear powers.  But if a gay soldier gets a look at a straight soldier's wee-wee in the shower, our troops will wilt like delicate flowers. 

Is this what we're talking about in the "don't ask, don't tell" debate?